First he calls me a ***** and ugly, now he wants to date me? (guys, tell me what he's thinking) ?

you hurt his feelings and he lashed out...common story. So what is it you want help with? If you don't date him there won't be a "second" time. Just be yourself and if he asks you out politely tell him you don't like him that way. If he responds bad then don't talk to him anymore.